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Is your Kindergarten through 2nd Grade Student Struggling?

Feb 5
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1. Big Picture: How to Think About Helping Your Child

  1. Short + frequent is better than long + stressful. Aim for 10–15 minutes, 2–3 times a day, instead of one long 45-minute block.

  2. Progress over perfection. Your goal isn’t “reading at a certain level by a certain date,” but steady growth and building confidence.

  3. Read with them, not just at them. Lots of shared reading, echo reading, and reading aloud to them is still extremely valuable in 1st grade.

  4. Keep it joyful and connected. Snuggles, cozy spot, tea/hot chocolate, soft blanket, and no pressure vibe. This makes a huge difference.


2. Daily Routine Structure (Simple Plan)

Here’s an easy daily structure (about 30–40 minutes total, broken up):

  1. 5–10 min: Phonics / Sound Practice 

  2. 10 min: Decodable reading (they read to you - see more info below) 

  3. 10 min: Read-aloud (you read faith-based stories to them) 

  4. 5–10 min: Fun game or activity with words 

You can adjust times, but this gives you a framework.


3. Phonics & Sound Practice (Foundations)

If your child has reading challenges, focusing on phonics (sounds) is crucial.

A. Daily Sound Review (5 minutes)

Do quick flashcard review of:

  • Letter names (A, B, C…)

  • Most importantly: letter sounds (a /ă/, b /b/, c /k/, etc.)

How to do it:

  • Hold up a card: “What sound?”

  • If they don’t know, you say it: “/b/. Say it with me.”

  • Make it fast and playful: “Beat the timer! Can we do all 10 cards in 30 seconds?”

If you don’t have cards, you can write letters on sticky notes or index cards.

B. Blending Practice (5 minutes)

Practice sounding out simple words (CVC: consonant-vowel-consonant):

  • cat, map, sit, ten, hop, run, etc.

Simple routine:

  1. Write “m a p” on a whiteboard or paper.

  2. Point under each letter: “Let’s say each sound: /m/… /ă/… /p/…”

  3. Swipe your finger under the whole word: “Now say it fast: map.”

  4. Do 5–10 words like this.

Make it a game:

  • “Let’s be robots: /m/… /ă/… /p/… map!”

  • “Now let’s be race cars: mmm-ăăă-ppp… map!”


4. Decodable Reading (They Read to You)

Use decodable books (books that mostly use words that can be sounded out with the phonics they know). This is extra important for struggling readers.


A. Christian / Faith-Based Early Readers & Sets:

Even if not all words are fully decodable, you can still use them as shared reading (more on that below).


B. How to Do a Decodable Reading Session (10 minutes)

  1. Preview tricky words.Look at the page and find 2–3 challenging words. Tell your child: “This word is ‘Jesus’. Let’s say it together.” “This word is ‘shepherd’. Let’s say it slowly: shep-herd.”

  2. First read = “Finger tracking” 

    • Ask your child to point under each word as they (or you together) read.

    • Help them sound out words:“What’s this sound? /s/. And this? /ă/. And this? /t/. Put it together: sat.”

  3. Support but don’t over-correct. 

    • If they’re stuck for more than 5 seconds, gently help:“Let’s do it together: /h/… /ă/… /t/… hat.”

  4. Encourage rereading.After reading a short page or sentence, say:“Great! Let’s read that sentence one more time, smoothly like a storyteller.”


5. Read-Aloud Time (You Read, They Listen)

Even if your child struggles with reading, you reading TO them builds vocabulary, comprehension, and spiritual formation.


A. Daily Faith-Based Read-Aloud (10 minutes)

Pick one or two of these kinds of books:

B. How to Read Aloud in a Helpful Way

  1. Before reading:“This story is about David and Goliath. Have you heard that name before?”

  2. During reading (stop briefly):“How do you think David felt right now?”“What do you think will happen next?”

  3. After reading (1–2 questions): 

    • “What was your favorite part?”

    • “What did we learn about God in this story?”

Keep it light and conversational, not like a quiz.


6. Fun Word & Reading Games (To Build Skills Playfully)

A. “Word Hunt” in Christian Books

  1. Open a children’s Bible or Christian picture book.

  2. Ask your child to find words:

    • “Can you find the word ‘God’ on this page?”

    • “Can you find the word ‘Jesus’?”

    • “Can you find the word ‘love’?”

They might not read the whole page, but they’re:

  • Noticing letters

  • Building familiarity with important faith words


B. “Build a Verse” (Simple Version)

  1. Pick a short verse or phrase, like:

    • “God is love.”

    • “Jesus loves me.”

  2. Write each word on its own index card:

    • [God] [is] [love]

    • [Jesus] [loves] [me]

  3. Mix the cards and let your child put them in the right order.

  4. Read it together, pointing to each word.

This builds:

  • Word recognition

  • Left-to-right tracking

  • Faith connection


C. Letter & Sound Games with a Christian Twist

  • “Sound Treasure Hunt” Pick a sound, like /g/. Say:“Let’s find things God made that start with /g/!”

    • grass, ground, grapes (in the kitchen), etc.

  • “Creation Alphabet” For each letter, think of something God made:

    • A – animals

    • B – birds

    • C – clouds

      Draw or write the word together.


7. Helping with Attention & Frustration

Lots of 1st graders with reading challenges also get frustrated easily. Here’s how to keep things calm:

  1. Use a calm, slow pace.If they are melting down, stop. Say:“We’re on the same team. Let’s take a break and try again later.”

  2. Praise effort, not just correctness. 

    • “I love how hard you’re trying.”

    • “You didn’t give up on that word. That’s brave.”

  3. Use movement breaks.After 10 minutes, do:

    • 10 jumping jacks

    • Touch toes and reach to the sky 5 times

    • “Walk like different animals God made” for 1 minute

Then come back to reading.


8. Very Simple Weekly Plan (Example)

Here’s an example you can literally copy and use:

Monday–Thursday:

  1. Morning (10–15 min)

    • 5 min: Letter sounds + blending simple words

    • 5–10 min: Decodable / early reader (they read to you)

  2. Afternoon or Bedtime (10–15 min)

    • 10 min: You read a children’s Bible story or Christian picture book

    • 5 min: Fun game (word hunt, build-a-verse, etc.)

Friday:

  • Do the same, but shorter, and end with:

    • A “celebration” reading: they read a favorite page they know pretty well

    • Maybe a small treat: sticker, extra play time, or special activity


9. Signs You Might Want Extra Support

If, after a few months of gentle, consistent work, you’re seeing:

  • Very slow progress with letter sounds

  • Persistent confusion of many letters

  • Extreme frustration, even with small tasks

  • Difficulty remembering words they’ve seen many times

Then it might be worth:

  • Talking with a local reading specialist or educational therapist

  • Asking your pediatrician about a reading or learning evaluation

  • Reach out to Dawn about creating an IEP Plan for your student

  • Looking into structured, faith-compatible dyslexia-friendly resources

You’re not failing if you seek help; you’re being a wise and loving parent ❤️.


10. Quick Christian Book/Resource Summary

Here are some concrete titles/series you can look for:

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